conffessions of a former slut

this post is very much a conffessional because so manmy young guys and girls are being so risky with your sexual health

i lost my virginity at 14, i never knew the masns name and it was far from romantic, and i was far too young to be doing what i was doing, but i was safe and wore a condom

im not going to lie when i have been single i have put myself a bout a fair bit, however its not all fun flings and see you laters!

during my time as a free and single man i had one shagf stalk me big time despite being told im now in a happy commited relationship, to the point i have had to change my number twice

also being young and savvy you may think this will never happen to you, but in todays society you rubn the risk of being sexually assaulted or raped by a shag or a one night stand, bare in mind in most cases you wont know the man from adam, and also people lie on line

in my experience, one "friend" tried to get me very drunk, and then threw himself at me, despite my saying no, so he then became more assertive, undoing my buttons, so i took action and i kneed him square in the balls and took myself home.

so many guys and girls these days dont say no when they should, it angers and upsets me, just because youve gone all that way or they have, does not mean you are obligated to do anything! dont be pressured into it! my friend has a 3 strike system,

strike one- erm what you doing?- this is if a date gets too handsy, and allows them a chance to correct themselves and all be forgotted

strike 2- seriously dude wtf- last chance to stop

strike 3- you kick bite scratch scream, do whatever you have to do to get them off you, and as soon as they are off you you leave, dont allow them chance to try again

take it from someone who has been in that situation, it is no pleasant, they will accuse it of being your fault but believe m,e its not, and the feeling of being used shall and will pass, but if you can avoid it happening in the first place, all the better

and always have condom,s and lube on you, incase the mood does take you, never bareback a stranger! that is just suicide in todays society!

have fun out there but stay safe!

Matt polar!