sorry i have neglected you dear readers, but i have been very busy
big news, rob asked me to marry him in january anmd i accepted, but with much trepidation
thias is my 3rd engagement since i was 16, my friends have started calling me the runaway groom
the first one at 16 lasted 12 hours, he asked me in tescos at 10 am, and i caught him shagging someone at the engagament party 12 hours later
the second was giles, that one lasted a week and ended because i realised the engagment was just a band aid to fix problems that couldnt be fixed
me and rob have been enagaged now for 2 months amd things are still going well, we are making plans, booking venues and purchasing the necessary things, so i guess im the runaway groom no more (though the wedding isnt till april 2012, so i still got time to fuck it up lol joking!)
more soon my loves
matt polar!
Tuesday 10 April 2012
conffessions of a former slut
this post is very much a conffessional because so manmy young guys and girls are being so risky with your sexual health
i lost my virginity at 14, i never knew the masns name and it was far from romantic, and i was far too young to be doing what i was doing, but i was safe and wore a condom
im not going to lie when i have been single i have put myself a bout a fair bit, however its not all fun flings and see you laters!
during my time as a free and single man i had one shagf stalk me big time despite being told im now in a happy commited relationship, to the point i have had to change my number twice
also being young and savvy you may think this will never happen to you, but in todays society you rubn the risk of being sexually assaulted or raped by a shag or a one night stand, bare in mind in most cases you wont know the man from adam, and also people lie on line
in my experience, one "friend" tried to get me very drunk, and then threw himself at me, despite my saying no, so he then became more assertive, undoing my buttons, so i took action and i kneed him square in the balls and took myself home.
so many guys and girls these days dont say no when they should, it angers and upsets me, just because youve gone all that way or they have, does not mean you are obligated to do anything! dont be pressured into it! my friend has a 3 strike system,
strike one- erm what you doing?- this is if a date gets too handsy, and allows them a chance to correct themselves and all be forgotted
strike 2- seriously dude wtf- last chance to stop
strike 3- you kick bite scratch scream, do whatever you have to do to get them off you, and as soon as they are off you you leave, dont allow them chance to try again
take it from someone who has been in that situation, it is no pleasant, they will accuse it of being your fault but believe m,e its not, and the feeling of being used shall and will pass, but if you can avoid it happening in the first place, all the better
and always have condom,s and lube on you, incase the mood does take you, never bareback a stranger! that is just suicide in todays society!
have fun out there but stay safe!
Matt polar!
i lost my virginity at 14, i never knew the masns name and it was far from romantic, and i was far too young to be doing what i was doing, but i was safe and wore a condom
im not going to lie when i have been single i have put myself a bout a fair bit, however its not all fun flings and see you laters!
during my time as a free and single man i had one shagf stalk me big time despite being told im now in a happy commited relationship, to the point i have had to change my number twice
also being young and savvy you may think this will never happen to you, but in todays society you rubn the risk of being sexually assaulted or raped by a shag or a one night stand, bare in mind in most cases you wont know the man from adam, and also people lie on line
in my experience, one "friend" tried to get me very drunk, and then threw himself at me, despite my saying no, so he then became more assertive, undoing my buttons, so i took action and i kneed him square in the balls and took myself home.
so many guys and girls these days dont say no when they should, it angers and upsets me, just because youve gone all that way or they have, does not mean you are obligated to do anything! dont be pressured into it! my friend has a 3 strike system,
strike one- erm what you doing?- this is if a date gets too handsy, and allows them a chance to correct themselves and all be forgotted
strike 2- seriously dude wtf- last chance to stop
strike 3- you kick bite scratch scream, do whatever you have to do to get them off you, and as soon as they are off you you leave, dont allow them chance to try again
take it from someone who has been in that situation, it is no pleasant, they will accuse it of being your fault but believe m,e its not, and the feeling of being used shall and will pass, but if you can avoid it happening in the first place, all the better
and always have condom,s and lube on you, incase the mood does take you, never bareback a stranger! that is just suicide in todays society!
have fun out there but stay safe!
Matt polar!
Friday 27 January 2012
if you like it then you better put a ring on it
small note, how does one pick a size for a cock ring
dont wanna get one thats too small nor too big
decisions decisions!
matt polar x
dont wanna get one thats too small nor too big
decisions decisions!
matt polar x
calling all big boys
hey!
are you hung? got proof? open to talk anonymously? message me on here, need guys to interview for a future blog post
WATCH THIS SPACE!
are you hung? got proof? open to talk anonymously? message me on here, need guys to interview for a future blog post
WATCH THIS SPACE!
meeting the bfs bff
right so sorry for not writing have had nothing to write comment or suggest
however now i have something to vent about
so tomorrow me and the spaceman are going to London for a day trip, and he announced today i get to meet the bff
now i know everyone says that meeting the parents is the scariest thing to do, thats a cake walk in my opinion because a boy or a girl will just like you more if their parents hate you! the bff however is another story, if a bff hates you that is a big red x next to your name!
wish me luck tomorrow, i just hope my shyness doesnt come across as frosty as i usually do! :s
however now i have something to vent about
so tomorrow me and the spaceman are going to London for a day trip, and he announced today i get to meet the bff
now i know everyone says that meeting the parents is the scariest thing to do, thats a cake walk in my opinion because a boy or a girl will just like you more if their parents hate you! the bff however is another story, if a bff hates you that is a big red x next to your name!
wish me luck tomorrow, i just hope my shyness doesnt come across as frosty as i usually do! :s
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